House Rules

HOUSE RULES & COMMUNITY STANDARDS

At KYNKSTR, we provide a sanctuary for authentic expression, embodied consent, and intentional kink exploration. Our house rules and vetting process are designed to create a culture of safety, accountability, and care. Every person who enters our space is expected to uphold these standards in both presence and practice.

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CORE PRINCIPLES

1. Enthusiastic Consent is Required.
Consent must be mutual, specific, ongoing, and freely given. No assumptions. No pressure. Negotiation comes first.

2. Respect & Radical Inclusivity.
We are a zero-tolerance space for discrimination of any kind. All genders, sexualities, bodies, ethnicities, spiritual beliefs, and access needs are welcome, respected and treated with equality.

3. Self-Responsibility.
You are responsible for your own boundaries, desires, and well-being. You are also responsible for respecting the boundaries of others.

4. “Leave No Trace.”
Clean up after yourself physically, energetically, and emotionally. Respect the space, others’ belongings, and the staff.

5. Agreement to House Rules.
By entering our space, you affirm that you’ve read, understood, and agreed to abide by these guidelines.

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DRESS CODE & CLOTHING-OPTIONAL EVENTS

Not all events are clothing-optional.
Clothing expectations will be clearly listed in each event description.

Our three standard categories are:

• Fully Clothed: All guests must remain clothed. Appropriate for workshops, meetups, or social mixers.

• Dress to Impress / Kink-Inspired Attire: Expressive, fetish-friendly, or creative outfits are encouraged (with genital coverage required unless otherwise specified).

• Clothing-Optional: Nudity is permitted in designated zones. These events require prior vetting and clear consent policies.

At all times:

• No nudity outside of designated clothing-optional events or zones.

• Nudity is not consent.

• Please bring a towel or barrier when nude or scantily clad.

• If in doubt, ask staff or refer to the event listing.

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VETTING & ENTRY POLICIES

All attendees must complete one or more of the following steps depending on the event type:

• Membership Application: Required for recurring or private events.

• Sponsorship by an Existing Member (for some events).

• ID & Age Verification (18+ or 21+ depending on event).

• Consent Literacy Check (may include questions, scenarios, or brief discussion).

• Mandatory Orientation for access to clothing-optional or play-based events.

We reserve the right to refuse entry or revoke access to anyone who does not meet the safety or consent standards of the space.

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RED FLAGS & REMOVAL CRITERIA

The following behaviors may result in denial of entry or removal:

• Verified history of consent violations, harassment, or abusive behavior

• Clear misunderstanding or disregard for consent principles

• Aggressive, entitled, manipulative, or coercive behavior

• Evasive, suspicious, or false information during vetting

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DURING EVENTS

• Designated Consent Monitors / Hosts will be available to support safety and address concerns.

• Safe Word Protocol will be explained and respected at all times.

• Quiet/Support Space will be available for decompression and emotional regulation.

• Confidential Reporting System in place for any concerns.

• Post-Event Feedback is encouraged and reviewed regularly.

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COMMITMENT TO TRANSPARENCY & GROWTH

• Vetting processes are transparent and explained.

• Inclusivity and accessibility are prioritized without compromising safety.

• Personal data is stored securely and never shared without consent.

• We are accountable to the community and open to feedback for continuous improvement.

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FINAL WORD

We are not just a club — we are a container for embodied truth, sacred play, and conscious connection. Whether clothed, bare, curious, or experienced, you are welcome here as long as you respect the rules, the space, and one another.

Your presence is your agreement. Thank you for honoring the space with your integrity.